We had the big "Feedback" meeting yesterday. Because Shea is turning 6, the school puts him through all the assessments again to determine what services he will qualify for. The feedback meeting it to share the good, bad and the ugly with the parents and the team.
Jake and I went and Molly babysat Shea and his little buddy Honon during the meeting.
Shea will qualify for speech but does not qualify for adaptive/cognitive anymore. His description is changed from DD Developmental Delay to CD Communication Disorder.
Apparently, he falls within age appropriate range for all adaptive and cognitive testing and I am taking that as very good news indeed.
He will get extra accommodation for following directions but basically the consensus was that he is academically ready for 1st grade.
Social will still be a piece for him but that is coming along.
Basically, the meeting was night and day from the 3 year old meeting which I sobbed through. We have sincerely come along way.
It was encouraging to hear his teachers talk about and show us the progression on his work. He came into Kindergarten barely able to spell his own name and now is banging out legible sentences. Marveling the teacher with his reading and sounding out unfamiliar words phonetically.
Now, we just have to do battle on placement.
The formal IEP meeting will be in 2 weeks and I need to do some homework on what teacher or classroom I feel would be best. My inclination is to go for the multi-age program because that is what I am familiar with and Molly had such a wonderful 1st/2nd/3rd grade experience. But, Shea is not Molly and it may not be the right fit.
Some serious thinking to do now but basically our boy is coming along.
I would say he is the successful product of early intervention. For those of you who may not remember, Shea didn't even say his first word until well past 3 years old.
We have really come a long way! But we are not done. He will still need much more speech to work on articulation and he may need tutoring in school as he gets older but the worry that he can't mainstream is pretty much dead.
Sincere thanks to all his teachers and therapists who have made these last 3 years so productive for him. I will never, ever forget any of you.
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